I am amazed at how ingrained I am by the experiences of my first 40+ years in the northern Midwest. The day it snowed here, I was caught instantly in a vortex of mixed emotions. I appreciated the beauty of fresh fallen snow but as soon as I started walking uphill on the un-shoveled sidewalk [...]
Archive for January, 2009
Relax Into Midlife
Posted in Health, Life, Midwest, Transitions, midlife, tagged empty nester, midlife, Midwest, relax, snow, time on January 25, 2009 | 1 Comment »
Watching “Revolutionary Road”
Posted in Life, Transitions, midlife, tagged "revolutionary road", conformity, midlife, suburbs on January 20, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
We watched the movie “Revolutionary Road” last night. There was a memorable line where the Weavers (the main couple played by Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet) describe their painful discontentment with their lives as the “hopeless emptiness of the suburbs.” They’d bought into the storyline that successful and happy families own a home in [...]
Who Let the Resolution Makers In?
Posted in Exercise, Health, Resolution, tagged Body Pump, gym, Resolution on January 8, 2009 | 5 Comments »
I should have known the minute the ball dropped in Times Square. Ignorantly, I welcomed in the New Year kissing my husband and toasting with friends as if nothing was about to change. I’d given up New Year’s resolutions as a serious matter years ago. I’d forgotten how many people still carry this tradition like [...]
Rewind and Fast Forward
Posted in Midwest, Travel, midlife, tagged amish, hometown, Midwest, past, small town on January 4, 2009 | 1 Comment »
Over Christmas we made a 13-hour drive north to be with family. It was the first time I’ve been back to my stomping grounds since moving south. And even though I grew up there and have visited the place a hundred times I saw it with new eyes, recognizing that trips will now be planned [...]